We will continue to sing it five times. The chasm can be deep between the worlds, but we can use the power of our affection to build a bridge, offering support. We all experience disconnection and feeling scattered.
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The strain of seeming to be one thing, yet knowing in our heart and soul that we are the other is immense. I must be whom my soul calls me to be. I will be honest to myself and the world, consequences be damned! The consequences often are a life rich in friendship, freedom and fresh thinking. In this process of being authentic, we create ourselves anew; we take the finest of what was, and merge it with the wonders yet to come.
We are not becoming somebody else; we are becoming whole. Alive, complete and loved. Not very long ago, the thought of Coming Out as lesbian, gay, transgendered, bisexual, interesexed, queer, etc. Some of us may still be uncomfortable, or confused by the notion.
There is only one purpose for all of life, and that is for you and all that lives to experience fullest glory. The wonder of this purpose is that it is never-ending. Should there come a moment in which you experience yourself in your fullest glory, you will in that instant imagine an ever greater glory to fulfill. The more you are, the more you can become, and the more you can become, the more you can yet be. The deepest secret is that life is not a process of discovery, but a process of creation. You are not discovering yourself, but creating yourself anew. Seek, therefore, not to find out who you are, seek to determine who you want to be.
To give someone a blessing is the most significant affirmation we can offer. And more than that: to give a blessing creates the reality of which it speaks. A blessing goes beyond the distinction between admiration or condemnation, between virtues or vices, between good deeds or evil deeds. A blessing touches the original goodness of the other and calls for his or her Belovedness. Coming Out is an important personal journey that is about personal authenticity and freedom. But it also has a wider effect in the lives of relatives and friends, and in community at large.
10 Daily Rituals You Need to Adopt Right Now | Time
Once, on the other side of the mountains, on the edge of the Endless Forest, a boy lived in a cottage with his mother and father, his brothers and sisters. But for the boy, who would grow up to be like himself and no other, there was none. One morning the boy woke up before sunrise. The night had been the coldest one yet, and the frost was heavy on his blankets. He dressed and left the cottage while everyone slept, dragging his sled behind him over the snowy fields and under the eaves of the forest. The boy ventured deeper into the forest, finding a few twigs here, a pine cone there, a fallen branch further on, and gradually he loaded his sled.
By the time he had enough wood, he was so cold and had wandered so far that he decided to build a fire for himself right where he was. He was brushing the snow away when suddenly the sun, which had risen while he searched, gleamed on something at his feet. The boy saw it was a key, a golden key, and picked it up eagerly. After a while it occurred to him that where there was a key, there must be a lock that opened to it. He swept the snow away all around him but, finding nothing, began digging into the ground.
Oh, the ground was hard, harder than stone, harder than steel, and the boy had no tools to work with but his hands. It was a long while that he dug, but whenever he got tired or discouraged he pulled the golden key out of his pocket, and let his eyes rest on its promise, and went back to his labour refreshed. At last he uncovered a small iron chest and pried it away from the grip of the frozen earth.
He turned it in his hands, searching for a lock, and at first it seemed there was none. He fit the key into the lock and began to turn it. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. You are the child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people the permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
There was a race of little creatures who lived at the bottom of a river. That current you worship will throw you tumbled and smashed across the rocks, and you will die quicker than boredom! He let go. Sure enough, at first he was tossed and tumbled and thrown against stones, but eventually the current lifted him up and steadied him.
The creature was liberated from his fearful, clinging existence; easily and gracefully he floated downstream, at one with the current, as if he were flying. Eventually, he drifted over another village of creatures who had never seen one of their kind do anything but hold on for dear life at the river bottom. A creature like ourselves, yet he flies. See the Messiah, come to save us all!
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The river delights to lift us free, if only we dare to let go. Our true work is this voyage, this adventure! Coming out is a profoundly spiritual act. Coming out means letting go — letting go of fear; letting go of limitation; letting go of anything and everything that has held us back, or anything we have been grabbing on to. Although it can be easy for others to see when we are not being ourselves, no one but ourselves can tell us who we are. Coming out is about letting go of victim consciousness and assuming active responsibility for our lives.
It means giving up the self-consciousness that has held us back for way too long. Who cares what anyone thinks of us?
What matters is that we become who we are, that we let our true selves come out. In the ultimate sense, coming out is about being ourselves. If that means coming out as a gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered person, then go for it. If it means coming out as an artist, or a poet, when everyone around you thinks you should go to medical school or law school or trade school, then go for what you really want.
It may mean coming out as a spiritual person. Coming out spiritually is also about letting go. It means rejecting feelings of shame or embarrassment because we are on a conscious spiritual path, whatever that may be. For queer people, it includes and presumes coming out, and all the shedding that entails. It involves emancipating ourselves from the expectations others have of us, and our expectations of them.
It is time for us to come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, or queer within the spiritual communities we are a part of. It is also time for us to come out as spiritual beings to our gay friends. In both cases, exemplars are sorely needed. By letting go, trusting that we will not be alone, we release our fearful, white-knuckled hold on our lives.
After tumbling and getting thrown and tossed about a bit—and if only we will resist long enough the urge to grab on again, to hold on for dear life to the illusion of safety and security—then the current will lift us up. As we stabilize, pretty soon we are able to glide in unison with the current. We learn how to use its force.
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We must grow with our universe! It is turning out to be much more marvellous than we had ever dreamed, more beautiful while more complex, fuller of that which we consider good than philosophers of earlier days could dare to expect. Our new directions of thought are filled with meaning for the coming races of humanity, and will lead us into new fields of awareness, new challenges of attainment, and new realizations of human destiny.
There is still far more in heaven and earth than is dreamt of in all our philosophies, but we are climbing and nature loses nothing of its wonder as we climb. Beyond the human state stretch apparently unlimited opportunities for further evolution. We have seen the gods and goddesses, the essences of perfection, and we know within our hearts that by following our inner light, learning how to be free in the ever-increasing reaches of our universe, we can become like them.
Now that we make the truth come out we find we have all kinds of ancestors—spiritual forebears—goddesses and gods as you will, stories to retell as they have been told thousands of years.
This is our spiritual occasion: that we are a people who define our identities by the fact of love. Isaacs booklet — suggestions as to the actual service, readings, biblical passages, graveside meditations and several other important topics regarding unveilings. Grief and Mourning by the Kentucky Department for Mental Health and Mental Retardation Services booklet — a brief and basic discussion of the confusion surrounding death and the stages of grief.
Drawing from their own histories, as well as from others, the authors illustrate what grief is and how it is possible to recover and regain energy and spontaneity.